Oh, To Be A Woman…

*NOTE* This is a follow up to an earlier post I wrote about being a Black Feminist Sub. Check that out for more thoughts. “I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, […]

Feminists Have Feelings, Too

I have this belief that everyone should be “feminist”, meaning that everyone should support equal rights for women. I understand, however, that the label has been politicized and distorted over time, by both men and women, and many people refuse to embrace it. There is a lot of baggage that comes with self-identifying as a […]

Guest Appearance: Feminista Jones on Sex, Love, and Hip Hop with @SinnamonLove

I had the pleasure and honor of being invited to participate in a discussion about men, particularly “Mama’s Boys” and “Baby Boys”. I had a wonderful time!! Johnny Walker Black was in the cup, great hip-hop was in the headphones, and a lively discussion was had by all. We talked about everything from the aforementioned […]

Sex And The 23 Year Old

June 2012 is Guest Blogger Month here at FeministaJones.Com. I solicited a few bloggers, writers, poets, etc to contribute posts lending their perspectives and experiences on feminism, sexuality, relationships, liberation, sex, and everything this blog is about. I hope you enjoy their contributions as much as I have.   I was a late bloomer practically […]

If A Man Wants You…

… more than likely, he will make it known and do whatever he can or it takes to have you. You need not force him, entice him, or be overt in your suggestive behavior. You need not pose ultimatums or box him into a corner. When a man comes to that realization that he must […]

Oh, Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. It’s a day that most people celebrate by taking time and spending it with loved ones. Mostly, it’s for romantic couples, but there are many people who spend it with parents, children, siblings, best friends… it’s greatness all around. I love LOVE. I wholeheartedly celebrate love as much as […]

Don’t Change

A friend and I were talking today about my last post on cheating.  He brought up one reason that people cheat is because the people they are with changed along the way. That change, he suggested, wasn’t so much about them becoming different people, but more about them revealing who they really are. In other […]