The Secret of Sugar Water (2017), Now Available!

Greetings Beloveds! I can’t believe I’ve written another book. It’s surreal, still. I’m so excited because I’ve wanted to share some things I’ve been working on but wasn’t sure how best to do so. Then, I quit my job, embraced the idea of a “break”, remembered the holidays are coming, and decided to release this […]

Chronicles of a Single Black Woman Dating Online: Part 1

Guest Blogger, Asa Todd (@sanitythief), has been exploring online dating as a single Black woman in her 30s. This series chronicles her journey, the ups-and-downs and ins-and-outs.            After working through and healing from a break up of a relationship of over two years, I decided to get back in the […]

Girls Night Out: A Lil Hood Tale

Greetings beloveds!   I decided to write a bit of Urban Lit because, you know me, always trying new things! This short story came from a series of tweets I did about “Chanda” and thought it might be fun to expand a bit on this story. I enjoyed writing this fun piece because I like […]

#TalkLikeSex @Ebonymag Breakups to Makeups

A partner’s sexual infidelity is the straw that breaks the backs of many relationships. Before making the commitment, many people make it crystal clear to their love interests: “If you cheat on me, we’re done!” Most sincerely mean it, and some even follow through with their promises of ending their relationships when they’ve been cheated on. […]

Can An “Alpha” Woman Truly Submit?

I’m going to present to you a quotation from the writings of a respected Dominant in the BDSM Lifestyle, Orpheus Black. In this passage, which I’ve trimmed a bit for length, He talks about why “Alpha” women not only make excellent submissives,  but also why they are highly desired by certain Doms. He references Dr. Marianne […]

Video: Single Women Are NOT Evil

There’s been an increase in the disdain expressed about Single Women, how they are worthless, crazy, horrible, trashy, fake, etc. I’m tired of it. I know a lot of other women AND men who are tired as well. Here are my thoughts:   XOXO

Ask Feminista: Conflicted Cat Chaser

Dear Feminista,   I’m writing you as somewhat of an extension of your Chase The Cat video.  I loved it and I thought it was spot on. Thinking about the last day or so I found I do have a question that wasn’t necessarily addressed. I’m 22 and very interested in someone 10-12 years older […]