Tag: relationships

Chronicles of a Single Black Woman Dating Online: Part 1

Guest Blogger, Asa Todd (@sanitythief), has been exploring online dating as a single Black woman in her 30s. This series chronicles her journey, the ups-and-downs and ins-and-outs.            After working through and healing from a break up of a relationship of over two years, I decided to get back in the […]

Girls Night Out: A Lil Hood Tale

Greetings beloveds!   I decided to write a bit of Urban Lit because, you know me, always trying new things! This short story came from a series of tweets I did about “Chanda” and thought it might be fun to expand a bit on this story. I enjoyed writing this fun piece because I like […]

#TalkLikeSex @Ebonymag Breakups to Makeups

A partner’s sexual infidelity is the straw that breaks the backs of many relationships. Before making the commitment, many people make it crystal clear to their love interests: “If you cheat on me, we’re done!” Most sincerely mean it, and some even follow through with their promises of ending their relationships when they’ve been cheated on. […]

Can An “Alpha” Woman Truly Submit?

I’m going to present to you a quotation from the writings of a respected Dominant in the BDSM Lifestyle, Orpheus Black. In this passage, which I’ve trimmed a bit for length, He talks about why “Alpha” women not only make excellent submissives,  but also why they are highly desired by certain Doms. He references Dr. Marianne […]

Video: Single Women Are NOT Evil

There’s been an increase in the disdain expressed about Single Women, how they are worthless, crazy, horrible, trashy, fake, etc. I’m tired of it. I know a lot of other women AND men who are tired as well. Here are my thoughts:   XOXO

Ask Feminista: Conflicted Cat Chaser

Dear Feminista,   I’m writing you as somewhat of an extension of your Chase The Cat video.  I loved it and I thought it was spot on. Thinking about the last day or so I found I do have a question that wasn’t necessarily addressed. I’m 22 and very interested in someone 10-12 years older […]

“Why Must I Chase The Cat?”

With growing acceptance of relationships between Older Women and Younger Men, I decided to weigh in on the trend with my own thoughts and some statistics. Are you a younger man who prefers older women? Tell us why!! Are you an older woman who dates younger men? Share your story!!     One of my […]

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